Self-Care Tips

Self-Care Tips

Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing):

A breathing exercise to calm your nervous system & improve cardiovascular health: alternate nostril breathing.

One of the classic yogic breath practices, alternate nostril breathing, is known in Sanskrit as nadi shodhana prānāyāma, which translates to “subtle energy-channel-clearing breathing expansion.”

Whether it’s a part of your yoga practice, or simply a quiet moment to yourself, alternate nostril breathing will help take your whirling mind down a few notches to reveal the stillness within.

Here’s how:

1. Sit in a comfortable position

2. Lift your right hand up to your face, with your thumb by your right nostril, your pointer & middle finger at your third eye, and your ring finger by your left nostril.

3. Exhale completely, use your right thumb to close your right nostril, and inhale through your left nostril for a count of 8.

4. Close the left nostril with your right ring finger and exhale out the right nostril for a count of 8.

5. Keeping the left nostril closed, inhale through the right nostril for a count of 8.

6. Close the right nostril with your left thumb and exhale out the left nostril for a count of 8.

7. Open the left nostril and exhale through the left side

8. This equals one round. Do as many rounds as you have time for, but at least 5 are recommended.


A few pointers: keep your breath slow, smooth and continuous. You should be able to breathe easily throughout the practice.

Tone Your Vagus Nerve⁣:⁣

The idea that your nervous system has only 2 phases (“fight or flight” or “rest & digest”) is outdated. There is a 3rd mode called “social engagement,” governed by your vagus nerve.⁣ Social engagement is associated with social interaction, communication, & self-soothing behaviors. When we are socially engaged, we naturally act in a beneficial way for our own survival & well-being, as well as others’. ⁣

With chronic stress, we’re unable to spontaneously come back to a state of social engagement—we get stuck in sympathetic-chain (fight or flight) or dorsal vagal (withdrawn, shut down) states, & often act in ways counter to our best interest. By toning your vagus nerve, you activate your inherent ability to respond (rather than react) & calm down overall.⁣

To tone your vagus nerve:⁣

1. Lie in a comfortable position & clasp your hands behind your head. ⁣

2. Keeping your head facing up, turn your eyes all the way to the right. ⁣

3. Stay there until you swallow, yawn, or sigh (usually 30-60 seconds). ⁣

4. Look up, and then repeat by looking to the left until you swallow, yawn, or sigh.⁣

5. Do this any time you feel stressed. Recommended 3-5x/day if you can!⁣

Oil Your Feet:

The Ayurvedic practice of padabhyanga, or foot massage, soothes our airy, windy qualities (anxiety being one of these!) by simultaneously stimulating and soothing the nerve endings in your feet.⁣⁣ This practice is great for supporting sleep and a calmer nervous system.

⁣⁣You just need a massage oil (coconut, sesame, sunflower, almond, or jojoba oil all work great!) and socks that you don’t mind getting oily.⁣⁣

1. If your feet are dirty, clean ’em! If you’re feeling fancy, give yourself a foot bath. If you’re just wanting to git ‘er done, use a warm washcloth.⁣⁣

2. Warm a half-dollar sized amount of oil by rubbing your palms together with vigor.

3. Take a moment to determine which nostril is more open, your left or your right, and start with that foot.⁣⁣

The next part is about massaging your feet in a steady, rhythmic way and exploring what feels good to you. Notice where you encounter tension or pain, and linger there.⁣⁣

⁣⁣Here are some suggestions:⁣⁣

· Massage your ankles in a circular motion with your thumb.⁣⁣

· Massage either side of your heel with your finger and thumb.⁣⁣

· Pinch, pull, and massage each toe. ⁣⁣

· Using your knuckles, massage the sole of your foot and your heel. ⁣⁣

· Interlace your fingers between the toes, squeeze, and hold for 10-15 seconds. Then use your hand to rotate your ankles 360°.⁣⁣

⁣⁣When finished, put on your socks and settle in for a nourishing night of sleep. 

Simple Stress Hacks

Minimize the effects of stress in your life by countering the body’s “fight or flight” response, which speeds up your heartbeat or respiratory rate, and causes muscles to tense up. Try these simple stress hacks with you in the hope that they will help you relax and, in turn, mindfully manage your stress.

Check in with your senses

Scan your environment and name three things that you can see, hear and touch. Describe the shape and size of the objects, how they sound and/or what their textures feel like. Since stress is often generated by thoughts of the future, focusing on the physical world around you can snap you back to the present moment and out of worry.

Correct your posture

It takes just a fraction of a second to notice your shoulders slumping and to stand up straighter. This little move can boost confidence, turn negative thoughts into positive ones and decrease levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

Make a fist with your right hand, release and repeat

Clenching your right hand engages the left side of the brain, the side that houses logic and verbal ability. Since feelings of anxiety are generated by the right side of your brain, it’s only natural that calling on its counterpart will help you rationalize through stressful thoughts.

Practice the “1-minute breathing exercise”

Deep breathing is an age-old practice that induces relaxation by enhancing the flow of oxygen throughout the body. The trick is to breathe deep into the diaphragm while counting to 20, hold for 20 seconds, then exhale for another 20 seconds in a slow and controlled manner.

View nature

Forcing your anxious mind to view beautiful landscapes — even if they are only pictures or even mental images — can shift the body’s stress reaction into recovery. In a recent study, students were given a stressful stimulus. One group was then shown images of trails and trees, while another group saw images of urban scenes. The nature image group experienced quicker cardiovascular recovery with a faster return to normal heart rate and blood pressure.

Take a cool shower

A cold shower or ice bath not only forces your racing thoughts to focus on the physical sensation of temperature, but also instantly improves your circulation. Next time you’re at home and you notice anxiety interfering with your day, try 30 chilly seconds at the end of your shower.

Talk to someone about stress

Simply verbalizing how you feel to a friend or family member can help you release some of the tension. And if you’re comfortable enough sharing the source of stress with someone, you might find talking things out to be even more useful in dissipating your anxiety

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